Unwanted Children

"Unwanted" or unplanned children are not unplanned neither unwanted by God.

Why did God created us? What is our #purpose?

In God's mind, the reason why He created us, was to walk in the good works. And it says, that God has ordained thπose good works. The question is, are these good works universal, and common, or there is a specificity for each individual? If individual, then it must follow that unwanted, or unplanned children were actually planned and wanted by God, since He had ordained a good works for them to walk in them.

Does God has a plan for each and every individual?

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Here it plainly states God's intimate involvement in the formation of each individual. The psalmist speaks of God knowing and planning his life, indicating that God has specific intentions for every person.

This verse highlights that God not only creates each person but also knows them personally and assigns specific purposes to their lives. Jeremiah was set apart before his birth, showing that God's plans extend to individual people.

This passage further affirms that God calls individuals and assigns them specific purposes even before they are born, reinforcing the idea of individual purpose.

Paul’s calling as an apostle was part of God’s individual plan for him, even before he was born. This further supports the idea that God gives individual people specific purposes in life.

Jesus emphasizes that God’s attention to detail extends to even the smallest aspects of individual lives.

If God cares so much about sparrows and the number of hairs on a person’s head, it demonstrates how individually involved God is with each human life.

What makes us thing that God had not planned every individual life, and that our lives are just a result of chromosome mix?

"Unplanned" lineage of Jesus

We know with certainty, that God had planned the birth of His own begotten Son. The Bible gives a good deal of emphasis on Christ's lineage. We read this in Matthew 1:1-17and Luke 3:23-38. In the Old Testament, there are stories preserved with the given individuals

Phares (Son of Judah and Tamar) - Genesis 38

The story of Phares is such that he was a child of Judah and Tamar, born out of a deceptive and culturally taboo relationship. Tamar was Judah's daughter-in-law. After her husband (Judah's son) died, Tamar disguised herself as a prostitute to purposely conceive an heir by Judah, because Judah refused to give her his youngest son in marriage as was the custom. Judah had sex with Tamar without knowing her identity.
Despite this morally complex and unplanned scenario (at least for Judah), Phares became an ancestor of Jesus (Matthew 1:3) His birth was part of the divine lineage through which the Messiah would come. Phares might have been unplanned child in the eyes of Judah, but not in God's eyes.

Boaz

Boaz is an interesting link within the Christ's lineage. He was a son of Salmon, who married Rahab - a Canaanite woman living in Jericho who worked as a prostitute, who saved Israelite spies (Joshua 2, Matthew 1:5). So Boaz is grand-grand father of King David. Because Boaz had a child with Ruth, named Obed, and Obed begat Jesse, and Jesse begat King David. Ruth, Boaz's wife, was a Moabite widow, and her marriage was unconventional by Israelite standards. As a foreigner, Ruth was considered an outsider to the covenant people of God. The union between Boaz and Ruth was arranged through an ancient law of levirate marriage (Ruth 4), and the relationship between Boaz (a wealthy Israelite) and Ruth (a poor foreign widow) would have been considered unlikely or unplanned.
Ruth’s story exemplifies how God can bring about His purposes through individuals who seem to be on the margins of society or whose situations seem unplanned or undesirable.

David and Bathsheba (Solomon's birth) - 2 Samuel 11-12

Bathsheba was a wife of Uriah Hetite, one of the most devoted man to King David. David committed adultery sleeping with Bathsheba, and she conceived and she gave birth to Solomon. Solomon is in the lineage of Christ (Matthew 1:6). Solomon was not planned neither by king David, nor Bathsheba. But in God's eyes, God had a plan with Solomon. We read the promise God gave about Solomon before his birth:

Solomon - out-of-the-wedlock child - was chosen by God to foretell Christ. Solomon's throne of his kingdom over Israel was not for ever. But Christ's was. Solomon did build the house for God, but so did Jesus. It was God's purpose to put this out-of-the-wedlock child as David's successor on his throne.

In many ways David was a representation of Christ. So was Solomon.

While there isn’t a verse that says Solomon was ordained “before birth” in the same language as other figures, 1 Chronicles 22:9-10 and 1 Chronicles 28:5-6 make it clear that God had chosen Solomon for a specific purpose before he was born. God’s promise to David about Solomon, his future reign, and his role in building the temple demonstrate that Solomon’s life was planned by God well in advance.

Thus, Solomon’s role as king and temple builder was not accidental but divinely ordained as part of God’s plan for Israel.

Conclusion

Every child, regardless of its origin and circumstances of its birth, in God's eyes there is a purpose, behind. Every child in His divine eyes, is of equal value.